Worth it or not?

Jie baru lepas habis pick boys dari thier football class. Boys nak pegi minum2 dulu. Rileks2 katanya sambil makan. Last week gi Kilenney kat Giant. Today diorg nak gi AnW kat stesyen minyak petronas kat KD. Tapi belum luck lagi sebab belum habis renovate. Lamer bebenor nak gi McD rasa macam dah muak makan burger. So we decided kat Cova Square jer. Plan nak soru kat Papa kopitiam. Aleh2 dah tutup aik???? Bila tutup?

Tak pe , kedai mamak ada. So boys bantai roti bakar and telor separuh masak jer. Then they went to main benda Allah ni. Apa ker nama tah.

Tah berape lak rege benda ni. Boys suka bebenor main. rm2 hinggit di bagi 3 biji bola. Lepas gian la tu.

Pastu makan aiskrim. Si bucuk mintak dari semalam. Layannnnnn

Tapi kan rasa korang worth it tak beli mainan bola atas meja tu?

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Another van Gogh in the family :)

Sorry for not update the blog yesterday, as I was really buzzzzzyyyy beee with work. Actually there is stories to tell on yesterday issues but I think stories of my boys will be more cheerish and giving positive auras to everyone who read it :-)

Another Van Gogh.... yes, there is another artist in family. The first artist is Amir. He is so creative with art. His drawings shows his talents. The detailing and colours choose. Previously Amir is attending classes for leadership in Discovery Kids. Some of the classes has activities for art. I am amaze with his creativity.

Noe seeing Aqiel's drawing, shows that he is creative also. I think need to think of art classes for both of them :-D

Aqiel told me that this is a tree. Blue colour indicate sungai. And ada rumput disitu. I ask why there is different blue colour for sungai. Dark and light blue. His answer was, sungaikan bila dekat biru gelap, bila jauh biru cair. :)

I ask the blue spot up at the trees. He answer that Cikgu Fatin request him to add awan, so he put 2 kepul awan. :-D hahahahahah

I think this is our late Brad Pit cat yang dah mati. Means he remember the poor cat.

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Everybody in school boikot me.... Aiman said to me. What shall I advise?

Been googling and found this..... may be it help. Will try and have mother to teenager talk with him. Tadi dah bagi ceramah thru phone call. He call me and refuse to go to school. Jie dah bagi motivation sikit and also marah him for not going to school just because friends not talking to him and talks behind him.

Hermmmmm ...... New phase for me. Handling Teenagers.


Question: What if You Just Don't Fit In?


Can you ever just accept that you'll never fit in? I've been trying and trying, but...maybe I just don't fit in. I always thought that if I spoke up around friends, that they would accept me, but it doesn't seem to work. I'm thinking of giving up on trying to fit in. What do I do?

Answer: The trouble with school (besides all the homework, of course) is that you can't choose the people you get to see every day. If you're unlucky enough to be stuck with classmates who don't really "get" you, you've just got to try to make the best of it.


But that doesn't mean you need to "fit in," or at least in the way that people think. If you try to transform yourself into a clone of everyone else, it won't help you make friends. It'll just make you feel like a fake.


You also shouldn't shut down and refuse to be friends with everyone who isn't like you. If you do that, you'll just make yourself miserable (and miss some great opportunities for friendship).



Instead, you've got to work on being comfortable and confident with who you are while ignoring all the haters. Keep on speaking up, asking questions and getting to know people better. If you send out positive energy, then people will generally send some back to you. (I like this phrase....) A couple of them will continue being jerks, and you're allowed to forget about them. (You don't need to be "accepted" by everyone at your school to have a great social life.)



If you feel like you're doing all that but still not getting anywhere, then don't give up. Just expand your circle. Get a part-time job at a cool-looking place, join an after-school art class or youth group - do whatever it takes to find a couple of like-minded people you connect with. (hermmmm good one, nak kena cari some cool activities for him to join) Even if you don't find anyone right away, you'll still be getting some more social experiences under your belt, and that's always a good thing.



And remember that you won't be stuck at school forever. When you finally go to college or get a full-time job, you'll have new opportunities to build social circles - and it gets easier every time.



A fun book called Uncool, by Erin Elisabeth Conley, has some tips for folks like you who want to stay positive at school while being true to your personality:

Be kind to your fellow misfits.

Throw caution to the wind. Take chances with fashion, hobbies, hopes and dreams.

Don't be afraid to look weird.

Let your inner geek speak - whether it's through music, art, science, origami, circus school or whatever.

Have patience with people who are different from you. (You know, the ones who are so "normal" they're practically clones.)

Don't change just because someone else thinks you should.

Know that even though you may misfit, there's always someplace you are welcome in the world.



So ..... macamana semua. Ada para ibu remaja tak? Adakah mengalami masalah sama dengan jie?
Somehow Aiman need to change also as jie pun tak berapa suka certain his attitude like show off thing. Speeking mat salleh is okay but he has to learn to be low profile sikit but confident.

alahai.......

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Tetiba kepingin sorang baby girl .....

Sedang jie melayari Facebook, Terpandang Verde nyer profile picture. Adus comel nyer budak pompuan ni. Geram dengan pipi dia..... Aku jadi teringin jap. Hati jie pilu... sedih pun ada.

Pujuk hati..... ada hikmah tiada anak pompuan ....

Kira okay la sekarang. last time masa shopping raya, tengok baju gaun budak pompuan, Jie siap nanggis lagi tau. Sedu sedan kat bahu Mr Hie.....

Aku nak anak pompuan, jerit hati masa tu

La ni dah okay dah. Sedih tetap sedih especially kalau raya sebab baju budak pompuan la paling banyak. Tension + stress. Kalau tak sedih means I am not human.... betul tak?

Ni jie bagi gambor Bucuk pakai telekung. Gian punya pasal. Nak sangat ikut jie solat. Nah ko. hehehehe

Pas tu jie kena marah dengan Mr Hie :P sabor jer la

Kalau aku ada anak pompuan .......

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Sapa buat ni..... bahan bukti ada ...aiyok tata yok

last week, balik umah, pintu gobok dapur terkopak.

Agak terkejut kerana melihatkan keadaan pintu yang bole tercabut.

Nasib baik pinggan Royal Dulton tak pecah

Beli masa kat Bangladesh.

Kat sini, Malaysia all that set jual dalam RM 5K or 6K

Jie ada all set complete.

Pengaku mengaku telah merobekkan pintu gobok.

Nasib baik dia mengaku dan pinggan tak pecah.

Baca ayat al-kawthar sepanjang malam tu...

Sabar jer la

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Rumah Ku Syurga Ku

This is my house. I love my house so much. Lots of greenery....

My House is a end lot. So we have sekangkang kera tanah.

I and Mr Hie do the lanscaping by ourselves. From buyying the trees and where to put it.

Tanam org lain.... upah hehehehe

It is a palm garden consept

In te house, we like to arrange our furniture in a minimalis style

Less furniture more space ....

When open the main door, u will see tis corner. Surah Qursi painting.... so calm everytime we come in.

Our dining have a big mirror which I will see my face everytime having breakfast together with Mr Hie. It is Lorenzo dining table and also Lorenzo Sofa.

Just love lorenzo furniture. So modern :)

We have 2 kitchen. Wet and dry. Separate by this huge cabinet.

We also have wash basin for people coming to house so that they have no need to go to kitchen. And there is mirrir there also for quest to see their teeth after eating at our house :)

This is family area upstairs. Lots of books for my boys to read.

I love my home sooooo much....

Home sweet home ......

Kota Damansara, Seksyen 8

Umi, apa tu MENGAWAN?

Apa agaknya korang jawab kalau soklan ni diberi oleh budak lelaki umur 13 tahun? :-)

Malam semalam, tika jie dok melipat kain sambil nengok National Geograhy bersama Aiman, Kisah kapal terbang terhempas. Tetiba si Chombi, kucing betina kat umah ni mengeow tersangat la kuat. Siap jerit2 lagi.

Jie suruh si Aiman mengintai. Ada kucing jantan datang menjengah kat kandang si Chombi. Apa lagi mengatal la tu.

Alaaa Chombi nak mengawan la tu..... jawab jie

Umi, apa tu MENGAWAN?

Tapi.... macamana nak explain kat Aiman dengan soklan dia tu.

Jie ada beli buku ni kat dia

Banyak gak info mengenai budak lelaki yang amat berguna.

Buku ni dah jadi turun temurun lak kat Amir and Ayep. Si debab dan bucuk belum paham lagi.

Korang yang ada anak lelaki remaja, macamana handle this situation?

Nak suruh si ayah nya ker explain?

Or

Biar dia belajar sendiri

Tapi Aiman ni jenis kuat bertanya. Pastu tak kira tempat menanya soklan2 cepu emas gitu.

Kekadang naik malu pun ada.

Kena mula mencari buku remaja lak lepas ni.....

Jangan jie jadi remaja balik udah.... :-)

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Lebih dasyat dari Airiel dan Luna Maya :-)

adengan yang korang akan tengok ni lebih dasyat dari adengan Airiel dan Luna Maya

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my debab(Aqiel Azirul) and bucuk (Muhammad Airil Azirul)

Cute tak?

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