Demi masa sesungguhnya manusia itu dalam kerugian....

Sebelum saya update cerita-cerita raya dengan gambar yang melambak ni beserta gossip-gossip terkini. Izinkan saya menceritakan satu kisah.

Bebaru ni saya pergi melawat kawan office Mr Hie. Actually Mr Hie went first, as SDMC is nearby his office. Kawan dia dah masuk wad penjagaan rapi. Wad yang banyak wayar-wayar tu. Dan entah apa control panel.

Hearing the story from Mr Hie makes me want to see her the next day and pass air zam zam.

She was diagnose with tumor nearby her heart. And it has block her nerve and blood circulation. Making her face bengkak. And I dapat tau tumor tu very active and most probably will be cancer or lumpfoma (not sure the spelling)

When we meet, she has been transfer to normal wad already. May be today will start her kimo. Hearing her stories make me realize betapa penting masa itu. She telling me that masa raya dia tak rasa apa-apa pun. Just sakit kepala dan bengkak. Ingat salah makan or due to tired sangat sebab raya.

Then she went to few clinics. None telling about tumor. Just take rest. Feeling uncomfortable, she went to SDMC. And from here she was warded. Masa tu masih tak bole terima and request to go back. But after doctor explain her life now is like water is pouring in a glass. Bila-bila masa akan penuh and melimpah. So she stay there.

When see her, she ask me how is ur work. How is my career. Being me as umi jie. I told her that, now my priority is my boys. I have once be a very buzy career women. Semua terletak pada bibik and pernah ada rasa marah bila anak sakit. Sebab tak dapat datang keje as kerja melambak. But then after dah makin berumur and anak makin besar. I realize why I am here. Family is important. Let the man do the earning. Kita ompompuan membantu. Penuhi kewajiban kita sebagai suri. Namun kerja masih ibadah tapi jangan keterlaluan. Itulah nasihat Mr Hie yang selalu I ingat.

After seeing her, we went for open house for 5 houses. Relatives and freinds. I remember her, she cant go for open house. She has to face that she is sick. And it is really a sudden one. Takde penyakit tu nak bagi warning dulu ker, intro dulu ker.... terus sakit. Unable to see her children and kita pun tak tahu samada dia berkesempatan melihat anak2 membesar. As we know cancer merupakan pembunuh kelas pertama.

Ohhhh, it makes me tick. How I love my boys, my hubby Mr Hie. How I want to spend more time with them. To see my boys grow up. To see that small feet, dari comel bulat dah jadi besar keras kematu gitu.

Oh I want to see my relatives, spend raya with them. Makan2 bersama, memasak bersama, chit chat bersama. And how I want to see all my friends again. Dari sekolah rendah sampai la kerja ni.

This morning, when I woke up. I saw my youngest still sleeping beside me. I belek tapak kaki dia. Dah besar rupanya. Tapak kaki dia nampak makin leper. Dulu begitu chomel sekali dan amat temban dan bulat tumit kaki dia. Ohhhh I wan to see him grow up. Please Allah give me time for me to see my boys grow.

Ohhhh sesungguhnya manusia dalam kerugian jika tak menghargai MASA

Ingat ketika kita sihat :)

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Nak makan red velvet cake and macarons

Sms to Mr Hie

umi jie : Yang, can u buy me velvet cake and macarons? :-p teringin

mr hie : can sayng. nnt sy beli k. td cbuk ckit

hehehehehe sukeeeeee

Red velvet cake

A Red velvet cake is a cake with a dark red, bright red or red-brown color. It is usually prepared as a layer cake somewhere between chocolate and vanilla in flavor, topped with a creamy white icing. Common ingredients are buttermilk, butter, flour, cocoa, and red food coloring or beetroot; although beetroot is traditionally used, many prefer food coloring since it is seen as more appealing. The amount of cocoa used varies in different recipes. A typical frosting is a butter roux (also known as a cooked flour frosting). Cream cheese or buttercream frostings are also used.

Macarons pelbagai warna

A macaron is a sweet confectionery. Its name is derived from an Italian word "maccarone" or "maccherone". This word is itself derived from ammaccare, meaning crush or beat, used here in reference to the almond paste which is the principal ingredient.[1] It is meringue-based: made from a mixture of egg whites, almond flour, and both granulated and confectionery sugar.

The confectionery is characterized by its smooth, domed top, ruffled circumference, and flat base. Connoisseurs prize a delicate, egg shell-like crust that yields to a moist and airy interior. The French macaron differs from macaroons in that it is filled with cream or butter like a sandwich cookie, and can be found in a wider variety of flavors that range from the traditional (raspberry, chocolate) to the exotic (truffle, matcha tea).

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Sketsa Rumahtangga Rasulullah :)

Nota ini jie ambil dari email Bakit-helwa TM. Amat sesuai dibaca especially suami di hari raya makin dekat ni.... almaklum la baju raya belum dibeli lagi..... hehehehehehe




Daripada Ummu Kaltsum binti Abu Salamah, beliau berkata: "Ketika Nabi bernikah dengan Ummu Salamah, baginda bersabda kepadanya, 'Sesungguhnya aku pernah hendak memberi hadiah kepada Raja Najasyi sebuah pakaian berenda dan beberapa botol minyak kasturi, namun aku mengetahui ternyata Raja Najasyi meninggal dunia dan aku mengira hadiah itu akan dikembalikan. Jika hadiah itu memang dikembalikan kepadaku, aku akan memberikannya kepadamu. Beliau (Ummu Kultsum) berkata: Ternyata keadaan Raja Najasyi seperti yang disabdakan Rasulullah dan hadiah itu dikembalikan kepada baginda, lalu baginda memberikan kepada masing-masing isterinya satu botol minyak kasturi, sedang sisa minyak kasturi dan pakaian itu beliau berikan kepada Ummu Salamah." (Hadis riwayat Ahmad)



Rasulullah juga suka memberi hadiah kepada isteri-isteri baginda. Apabila pulang dari mana-mana perjalanan, baginda sering membawa pulang hadiah untuk isteri-isteri baginda. Pernah suatu ketika, baginda terlupa membawa pulang hadiah, baginda berpatah semula ke pekan lalu membelikan ahdiah untuk isteri baginda.



Diriwayatkan oleh Aisyah r.a., "Pada suatu ketika Rasulullah menghadiahkan aku sebuah gelang yang amat cantik buatannya. Kemudiah aku bertanya kepada baginda, "Ya Rasulullah, siapakah di antara kami (isteri) yang paling kamu sayang?" Jawab Rasulullah, "Siapa yang ada gelang di lengannya." Keesokkan harinya aku dapati kesemua isteri baginda memiliki gelang yang sama."



Kepentingan memberi hadiah

1. Simbol kasih suami terhadap isteri

2. Menggembirakan hati isteri

3. Mencetuskan rasa hormat dan taat dalam hati isteri terhadap suami

4. Mewariskan rasa cinta dan menghilangkan kekotoran hati. Sabda Nabi, "Hendaklah kalian saling memberi hadiah kerana hadiah itu dapat menwariskan rasa cinta dan membersihkan berbagai kekotoran hati/jiwa."

5. Mendatangkan rasa saling cinta-mencintai, menyatukan hati dan memunculkan kasih sayang.



Imam Tabrani meriwayatkan daripada Aisyah r.a. bahawa Rasulullah SAW bersabda, "Biasakanlah kamu saling memberi hadiah, nescaya kamu akan saling mencintai." Juga diriwayatkan oleh Bukhari dalam Adabul Mufrad, no. 594. Ibnu Hajar berkata, "Sanadnya shahih."



Melakukan kebaikan kepada isteri adalah sebahagian tanda Muslim sejati. Suami baik sedar bahawa dirinya menanggung amanah besar dalam soal menjaga kepentingan isteri.



Sabda Rasulullah saw bermaksud: "Orang yang baik di antara kamu ialah orang paling berlaku baik terhadap isterinya dan akulah orang paling baik terhadap isteri daripada kamu." (Hadis Riwayat at-Tarmizi).



Hadis lain Riwayat at-Tarmizi bermaksud: "Mukmin yang paling sempurna imannya ialah mukmin yang paling baik akhlaknya dan paling lemah lembut terhadap isterinya."

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